MOTHERHOOD SMOTHERHOOD by JJ Keith
Fighting Back Against the Lactivists, Mompetitions, Germophobes, and So-Called Experts Who Are Driving Us Crazy
Available now from Audible. com
From the Publisher:
“What’s the first thing a woman does when she thinks she might be pregnant? She Googles. And it goes downhill from there. While the internet is full of calming and cheerily supportive articles, it’s also littered with hyper-judgmental message boards and heaps of contradictory and scolding information.Motherhood Smotherhood takes parents through the trenches of new parenting, warning listeners of the pleasures and perils of mommy blogs, new parent groups, self-described “lactivists”, sleep fascists, incessant trend pieces on working versus non-working mothers, and the place where free time and self-esteem goes to die: Pinterest (back away from the hand-made flower headbands for baby!).
JJ Keith interweaves discussions of what “it takes a village” really means (hint: a lot of unwanted advice from elderly strangers who may have grown up in actual villages) and a take-down of the rising “make your own baby food” movement (just mush a banana with a fork!) with laugh-out-loud observations about the many mistakes she made as a frantic new mother with too much access to high speed internet and a lot of questions. Keith cuts to the truth – whether it’s about “perfect” births, parenting gurus, the growing tide of vaccine rejecters, the joy of blanketing Facebook with baby pics, or germophobia – to move conversations about parenting away from experts espousing blanket truths to amateurs relishing in what a big, messy pile of delight and trauma having a baby is.”
My recording experience:
Oh, this book made me laugh. And wish that it had been around when I was pregnant/parenting babies and toddlers. And think of a list of people that I wanted to give it to. Granted, Keith’s sense of humor is on the irreverent side, and she’s not shy with her use of, shall we say, colorful language. So it’s not for every brand of new mom. But if you’re like me, and your parenting experience was full of both anxiety and hilarity, then you’d be on board. The following quote describing one such moment kind of summed up Keith’s writing style to me: “That right there is a vomit sundae.” Enjoy.
Listen to a sample here: